What you represent to a woman

In my last post I concurred with Tomassi’s assertion that men essentially have no intrinsic value to a woman; it’s what you are, not who you are that hypergamy cares about.

There are three basic categories of what you are/represent to a woman; Any and all of your characteristics that women find attractive will fall under one or more of these categories.

1) Short-term mating potential
2) Long-term mating potential
3) Status potential

Let’s break them down.

Short-term mating potential

Short-term mating potential, also referred to as the “Alpha fucks” part of a woman’s sexual pluralism strategy (credit, Rollo Tomassi), is something that you represent to a woman on the most basic, visceral level. Good genetics, a muscular body, dominance, confidence, and virility are characteristic traits of a Man that a woman will get wet for immediately.

These traits signal your Alpha male status, and serve to advertise your Alpha genetics. She wants what you represent for her offspring, so she wants to fuck you starts to like you. Women at the peak of their physical attractiveness and therefore sexual market value (aged ~18-22) will first and foremost fuck men whose attributes represent short-term mating potential. This is the category “bad boys” fall under, and also the category where most of the attributes men learn to manipulate with game fall under.

Long-term mating potential

Long-term mating potential, also referred to as the “beta bucks” part of a woman’s sexual pluralism strategy, is something that you represent to a woman within a provider context. Having already gotten the Alpha “seed”, and taking into account that most men with short-term mating attributes (Alpha bad boys) lack long-term mating attributes, the female then carries her Alpha “seed” with her as she searches for a man that represents long-term mating potential. Even though in modern society women fuck the Alpha men with the short-term mating potential and largely avoid pregnancy because of modern birth control, the principle and her drive remains the same.

Long-term mating potential attributes revolve around the provider (beta) context and include things like a stable income, a high income, lack of dominance, lack of confidence, emotional availability and dependence, and strong mate-pairing attitudes (see: putting pussy on a pedestal). While many of these attributes seems unattractive, they are represented by a man without options in the sexual marketplace, and when paired with the categorically attractive male attributes of a high/stable income make him supremely attractive in the long-term provider/chump context precisely because of his unattractiveness to other women; There is very little risk of a woman losing her provider/chump husband if he is emotionally available/dependent, lacking dominance and confidence, and otherwise beta, because men are primarily tempted by sex, and most women that would be flaunting sexual bait are only interested in those men with the short-term mating attributes, as discussed above, and he doesn’t have those attributes. He’s Step-Daddy the ATM. These men often live within a real or virtual cuckolded relationship (unless she was a virgin when she married the beta provider, but even then she’ll be likely to stray to Alpha seed so it’s only a matter of time).

Status mating potential

While the short-term and long-term mating potentials are the core of female sexual pluralism, a third outlying category does exist. This category can be confusing because it can incorporate attributes from both short-term and long-term mating potentials, but for an end goal other than Alpha seed or beta providership.

This is where gold diggers and women who sleep their way “to the top” live.

While a woman who is after a man’s money, or who sleeps with her boss for her own career/status gain may in fact recognize attributes from either of the two categories in the man she’s using for status, this is not her main reason for mating with these men. Her boss may be Alpha, and have plenty of provider money, but her main goal was status-oriented and she otherwise wouldn’t have mated with him in the short-term or long-term. Unless supremely wealthy, famous, or powerful, most Men need not worry about this category. It is mainly here to identify a principle we’ll discuss next.

Men often demonize these status-whore “types” of women, but the same principle that underlies a gold-digging woman who can use her sex to achieve her end-goal applies to all women, no matter their current mating-potential course.

A woman operating within a long-term mating context will fuck her beta provider chump husband, even though he’s viscerally unexciting (can you say “dry vaj”?) simply to keep him satiated and happy to be providing. She is just as able to use her sex to get what she wants as is the gold-digger.

Likewise, a woman operating within a short-term mating context is using her sex to get your Alpha genetic seed, not just to make you happy. These short-term potential girls are the girls all men would stay with forever if they could keep pulling them because the sex is the best and she’s usually pre-lubed from your game/short-term attributes before you even stick it in.

That’s not going to come as a surprise to anyone; all guys would rather fuck a sopping wet, writhingly horny girl who is responding viscerally to your game, than a fat housewife who offers you duty/pity/ration sex to keep you on the leash.

The point is women want to fuck you because you either represent Alpha genetics for her offspring, beta money and lack of options to raise them, or status that she can leech. Any characteristics/interests etc., you have as a Man that do not fall under any of these categories are useless to women, and will not get you laid.

In other words, once again, Hypergamy doesn’t care about who you are, it only cares about what you are.

Once you realize this, and now that you know the different categories of what you can represent to a woman you can start focusing your game, conserving your resources, and otherwise operating more efficiently and effectively to run game that applies to the unique situation you have at hand.

If you simply want to get as much young tightness as you can, you’ll focus on perfecting your game, and therefore your attributes that would fall under the short-term mating potential category that stimulate a woman to “use” you for your Alpha seed.

If you are in a relationship, you can use your knowledge of both the long-term and short-term uses a woman will find to have sex with you to get laid more often. Show her you are both Alpha and beta and you’ll hit on two of her biological reasons for spreading her legs. Short-term mating attributes/game within a relationship context will deposit both dread and (therefore) cum deeeeeeeeep down inside of her.

Whatever you do, use your knowledge that women care not for who you are, but what you are, to further your own masculine imperatives.

Post Script: Gaming a gold digger/status whore into fucking you, then telling her you’re broke as fuck, except for a chocolate coin, would be awesome. Bucket list.